02
Jan
09

Friends with benefits, The Hook-up and The Booty Call

200121291-001I recently had a discussion with some friends regarding the website Adult Friend Finder. The key word here is “friend”. In today’s society we all need someone to talk to, another individual that share in the same interests we have.

Now let’s go a further into this “friend” zone. If you lump in the hit from site such as EHarmony, Match.com and Yahoo personals into one big pot you still wouldn’t have enough to top the hits received by AFF. The site has over twenty million members, all looking for sex, interactive chats, local hook-ups and yes…friends. Imagine if you will a one stop shop to find someone who will willingly help you to turn your every fantasy into a reality and maybe even create some new ones. If voyeurism is your forte, that’s cool. Just tap into one of many personal video cams where you’ll find a nice young lady or a hunky young man ready to engage in onscreen sexual gratification just for you. Okay so it’s not just for you, I’m pretty sure it’s just as exciting for them. If you like you can turn on your webcam and join in the fun; I mean it is tit for tat after all. (No pun intended)

Now don’t get me wrong, please believe it’s all about the sex. You may find some friends with benefits along the way but don’t get it twisted, you must know what you really want when surfing AFF.
Now let’s examine a few useful terms and some rules to follow to help you get through the right.

Friends with benefits:
Now this is a good one. Who do you trust more than a friend? And if that friend is of the opposite or sex of your liking, that’s all the better. FWBs come with the safe confines of the friend zone with extras. When in need, they’re a friend in deed.

Hookup, hooking up:
This is a standard word or phrase to describe the old “one night stand” adage. This may involve anything from kissing, making out or even the big pay dirt, sex without commitment. This is the easy way to get what each participant wants or needs without the attachment of strings. Heck you don’t even have to call
afterwards. The rules of their time spent together are understood.

Booty call: This can be a good or bad thing. A booty call is a late night call you place when the urge hits you. If handled correctly, booty calls can also be wild, unadulterated fun in the sack. Just make sure to keep it casual and cordial.
Protection us it! Unless you want to take home souvenirs this is a must.

Don’t tell the person, “I usually don’t do things like this.” Or “I don’t normally take woman home I just met.” Trust me they really don’t care how often or if you’ve done it before. All they want to know is that you’ll do it right now. If they ask just say, “It’s not something I’d normally do,” smile and move on.

Don’t linger. When the big bang is over, if you’re there until the morning—get up grab you stuff and get the heck out of there. There’s no reason to stay unless you’ve been asked.

Don’t offer to leave your number. If they want it, they’ll ask. Don’t make yourself appear needy. Keep in mind what this is, and keep the meaning of one in your head, one: single entity, unit, or object.

Try to exit unnoticed. He he/she wants to find you, they’ll look for you. The mystery of the chase will make it that much more fun when you’re found. If you find yourself in a dorm heading down the walk of shame, hold your head up high on your way to the door. It’s not like you didn’t know what this may lead to in the morning.

Don’t ask, “How was it?” Come on, really? Do you really think this is an appropriate question after a night with a total stranger?

Now I’m no authority on the matter. I just know a little something, something and know things I’ve picked up from friends here and there. The main thing to remember in your friend search is to know what it is you’re looking for and what you want. Be careful, always protect yourself. Don’t put yourself into a
situation you may find it difficult to get yourself out of with assistance.

Okay, I think that’s enough for our first talk. It was good for me. Was it good for you? Now here’s the question.


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